a girl in the world

finding beauty, pleasure and grace on the road less traveled

We spent the entire day yesterday trying to get me into Spanish for Foreigners at the University of Buenos Aires (UBA).  We trekked downtown, I took an oral and written exam, got a note from the ‘principal’ and then trekked all the way back into Palermo to attend class.  Phew!  So much walking and talking and planning but finally, I’m in school.  I’ve got homework and oral assignments and classmates and a teacher who refuses to speak a word of English.  We bought me a notebook and different coloured pens.  All I’m missing is the Spongebob lunchbox and the rolling Rainbow Bright backpack.  =)

I’m excited to be learning something new again.  The desire to ace everything, to perfect the material, to really learn this language is on fire.  I dream conjugations of regular and irregular verbs.  I speak broken Castellano every chance I get.  And it is so much fun!

I’ve been here a week and already I’m at a panic over how quickly these next two months will pass by.  Can’t time just stop for a few years while I play here and there?  =)  How lovely would that be?

This is our home, for the next few months.

On Sunday afternoon, we decided to walk over to the Hippodromo Palermo to watch some horse racing.  Gambling on an Easter Sunday wasn’t exactly part of the plan but it was a great excuse to walk through the parks and get some sunshine.

During the hour-long trek over, I thought a lot about why it is that I’ve decided to spend another 9 weeks in this city, in the middle of Autumn, in a place that feels a million miles away from home.  Buenos Aires is as far south as Capetown.

Besides obvious things like matters of the heart, an affordable cost of living and some interesting business opportunities, there’s definitely something more about this place that keeps me close.  Right now, I’m sitting at a corner coffee shop on a Monday morning watching dog walkers run their daily routes.  There is a butcher around the corner that sells fresh meats and chickens, a pizzeria down the street and a fresh produce stand with the most gorgeous garlic bulbs I’ve ever seen.

There’s a feeling of community here that’s hard to find in other big cities around the world.  The grocery shop will deliver any purchase over $150 pesos (30 USD) to your door.  Similar to big cities like NY and London, grocery chains here understand that urban living in large apartment blocks requires a level of service unheard of in the suburbs.  Grocery delivery isn’t a new idea to me.  But here, as we walked home with our few bags of food a few nights ago, I was stunned to see delivery boys walking wheeled carts across the street ready to deliver groceries around the neighbourhood.  I don’t know why I found it so humbling.  I expected a large Carrefour truck to come barreling around the corner ready to tackle the day’s orders in record time.  Instead, a small army of ‘walkers’ hand deliver each bin to apartments big and small. I laughed.  It is so charming.

That same evening, we stumbled across a local video rental store.  Amazingly, they too deliver.  With delight, I tweeted about it:

dcg another reason i love buenos aires: video rental delivery. choose a movie, phone the store and they come with the dvd to your door. =)


My friend replied:

@dcg you need netflix instant play


To which I replied:

dcg @christosap but i like the door-to-door delivery precisely because it is so old-school. simpler times, simpler times. =)


And maybe that’s exactly why this place pulls at me so.  It’s a modern, crazy, bustling mess but somehow, in the heart of these tree-lined neighbourhoods, there’s still a way to connect to simpler times, where lives are lived not only in the confines and securities of home but also at produce stands and butcher shops and coffee terraces along sidewalks and parks.  Here, I feel a part of the community.  And that’s important.  Being a part of something bigger than yourself is important.  It feels nice.

Hi, I'm Denise. I'm a writer, artist and photographer. This is where I share what I'm seeing, learning and making.


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